Do you have examples of mutual assistance from a stranger? and got the best answer
Reply from __[guru]
While returning by car from Gelendzhik to Moscow, I broke down on the bypass around Rostov-on-Don. I spent an hour voting with a rope, all the landowners were rushing past. Then a local drove up, took me on a rope, and pulled me to the service station. They couldn't fix my problem there. Then the same guy dragged me to the second service station, made sure that they would fix me there, what human prices, what exactly on that day - and left without taking the money.
In the same year, I forgot one of two briefcases with personal belongings, documents, credit cards, a wallet, and also official documentation in a taxi in Rostov-on-Don. The guy himself found me using my mobile phone number, written on a business card inserted in one of the pockets. And he didn’t demand any reward!
Rostov and Rostovites, please accept my sincere gratitude and respect.
Answer from Elite elite[newbie]
THX
Answer from Feminine, noun[guru]
I also had a problem.
my child got seasick in the morning crush of the subway, I won’t tell you about the consequences, everyone can guess what it is... we stood right next to the door and still managed to get the young girl’s things dirty... and she also helped us get out, clean ourselves, come to to yourself.
thank her! :)
Answer from Evgenia Dubrovina[guru]
the world is not without good people) but I noticed a pattern, negative as well as positive emotions are in the air clearly in turn) sometimes absolutely everyone seems disgusting and evil, and sometimes you love the whole world, and it seems that the whole world is smiling at you answer)
Answer from UMAX[guru]
I don’t remember such cases, but mutual assistance exists. Not everyone lives by the principle “Man is a wolf to man.”
Answer from *
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I don't remember for a long time. I'm not used to asking anyone.
Answer from User deleted[newbie]
there is, and I myself try to help people, even strangers, but to the best of my ability
Answer from Marie Marinovna[guru]
I'm lucky to have good people.
For example, when I fainted on the subway, an unfamiliar girl first took me to the first aid station at the station, then used her own money to get me a car home, and then called me back and asked how I was feeling. Thank you very much to her!!
Answer from Dragonella[guru]
Yes, it happens))) And when you don’t expect it at all))) Even if it was a little thing, it was still unexpectedly pleasant.
Answer from Victoria Devoe[guru]
Well, why about yourself? Isn’t helping relatives, acquaintances and friends and accepting help from them mutual assistance?
Answer from 1 1
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every man for himself
Answer from User deleted[newbie]
there are, and very bright ones) in fact, the world is not without good people))
Answer from Alexey Nikolaev[guru]
When an unfamiliar girl of about 14 years old from another city, had a fight with her parents and fled to Minsk to stay with distant relatives, and Minsk, completely lost, rings your doorbell at half past two in the morning and you, cursing everything in the world, take the engine and take her to these damn relatives through half the city. And in the morning there is a traffic police exam...
When a guy in a trolleybus got his leg caught in the door and those getting out pushed him so hard that he fell and broke it and someone needs to call an ambulance and take him to the hospital, and you have a VIP client spawning and you are forced to apologize to the client, and you are cursing everything on light...
When you stand broken down in the rain on a long journey and don’t know what to do... Sometimes they drive by, sometimes they tow you and don’t even take your money.
It's a different world...
What is mutual assistance?
First version of the essay (based on the text by N. Aine “The schoolchildren looked at the beating completely calmly...”)
Definition of the concept
Mutual assistance is the basis of the existence of human society. We live in a large group and without relationships, without mutual help to each other, we would not be able to withstand the vastness of life’s problems. Mutual assistance is learned from childhood. Not everyone is able to express themselves in this direction, since the concept itself presupposes a person’s movement against other people or circumstances in the name of helping someone else. Such a person must be a daredevil.
Thus, in the text by N. Aine, a situation of double mutual assistance is described. First, Agnia helped a boy with a heart condition escape the ongoing beatings of high school students, and then Vitka defended the girl in front of a crowd of angry teenagers. It’s amazing that schoolchildren are used to watching each other being beaten completely calmly. For some reason, everyone believed that Agnia was fighting for nothing, and they always beat her brutally, but she did not give up. Is it possible to think that in the case of the boy with a heart, she got up to fight for nothing?
An argument from personal experience
Indeed, modern children are cruel. They are in many ways indifferent to each other, they are accustomed to animal laws in communicating with each other. Perhaps somewhere they lack the courage to support a comrade, to go against violence. This is one of the main problems of our modern society, and not only among the younger generation.
Conclusion
Mutual assistance is synonymous with the concepts of strength, courage, will, compassion, help. There is so much contained in it that not every person can accommodate all these feelings in their heart. But such people still exist, and this cannot but rejoice.
Second version of the essay (based on the text by L.F. Voronkova “Grinka and Fedya gathered in the meadow for sorrel ...”)
Definition of the concept
Mutual assistance presupposes special qualities in the person who comes to the rescue. The main one is the ability to put oneself in the place of another, the inability to leave someone in trouble. Mutual assistance is a kind of life principle of some people.
Argument from the text read
In the text by L.F. Voronkova outlines a situation that clearly demonstrates that not everyone is ready to come to the aid of those in trouble. Many are afraid for their lives, their health, and are simply trying to avoid trouble. The worst thing is that this is the norm for modern society. Even Vanya, who saved the baby from a herd of bees, was called a simpleton by his grandmother. But he committed an act that not everyone has the courage and strength to do.
An argument from personal experience
In our modern society, not everyone is able to come to the rescue. Even an elderly woman or a blind man will not be allowed to cross the road. Moreover, people stopped giving each other seats on buses and holding doors. The slightest inconvenience today does not suit a person; the first place for everyone is their own comfort. And those who violate this order are often called fools or upstarts.
Conclusion
In fact, it is on mutual assistance that our society is built. There are many situations in which you cannot survive alone. After all, people are social creatures, and as long as there are those who are capable of mutual assistance, society will continue to exist.
The third version of the essay (using the example of the text by Yu.V. Trifonov “This torment began in distant years, in the fifth grade...”)
Definition of the concept
Mutual assistance is one of the main criteria of friendly relationships. Very often it is opposed by envy - envy of someone else's success, fear of losing authority in front of a spiritually stronger person. It happens that people make mistakes. Instead of uniting with someone and helping, they begin to plot. And then they themselves suffer from it.
Argument from the text read
This happened in the text of Yu.V. Trifonov, when schoolboy Glebov was afraid of losing his authority because of the new guy Levka Shulepa. Instead of making friends with the boy, the hero of the story incited his classmates to reprisal against him. This plan was a fiasco, and from then on Levka became the most popular in the class. But Glebov could have helped him, then the heaviness inside would not have squeezed his soul so much.
An argument from personal experience
Indeed, sometimes people choose completely wrong ways of interacting. Instead of trying to understand a person who for some reason is unpleasant to them, they begin to build strategies to destroy him. But all evil always turns against us. In life, it is more important to strive for mutual assistance.
Conclusion
Mutual assistance is the engine of good relationships between people. All our interactions are built on it, thanks to it we understand that we are not alone in this world. It gives us hope for miraculous salvation in a difficult situation. And those who do not follow the laws of mutual assistance punish themselves.
In today's cruel world, some people are indifferent to others. Many are only interested in personal well-being; they have begun to forget what mutual assistance and mutual assistance are. In the explanatory dictionary, these words have practically the same meaning, and no one should forget about them.
What does mutual assistance mean?
People should help each other, lend a helping hand in difficult times. The world rests on this. Mutual assistance is the mutual provision of assistance and support in any matter. It does not require the surrender of valuables or material goods. Relationships should not be built on the concept of “You give me, I give you.” Life is a boomerang, it is based on goodness and noble deeds.
Why is mutual assistance needed?
A person cannot survive alone without communicating with other people. His social position is laid down by nature and stretches from ancient times to the present day. There has always been mutual assistance to each other. It has changed over time, but its essence remains the same. Mutual assistance manifests itself in difficult situations, when not only a well-known person, but also a stranger can come to the rescue.
They may not know each other and will never meet again. A random passer-by called an ambulance for a man who felt ill on the street. Mutual assistance is not an expectation of gratitude or material reward from the victim. By showing sympathy, the passer-by understands that he did the right thing. Good returns and he is sure that he himself will not be left alone if a similar situation happens.
Ways of mutual assistance
There is a well-known wise expression: “If you want to know a friend, tell him your misfortune or share your joy.” A person who is ready for mutual assistance will try to provide all possible service or will be sincerely happy for the successes achieved. It is easier for people brought up on trust and understanding to build relationships; for them there is the concept of “mutual assistance.” They help each other at all times, thanks to which they survive and achieve results. Mutual assistance can be considered at several levels:
- at the state level.
- show charity;
- family relationships.
A film about mutual assistance
Films are one of the art forms. They are presented to the audience, who after viewing share their impressions. Films about mutual help and loyal friends teach kindness to children and adults.
- "Pay someone else". A film that does not let you forget about mutual assistance and kindness, of which there is little left in the modern world. The child with a pure soul took the teacher’s school assignment “Change the World” seriously.
- "1+1". Original title of the French film "The Intouchables". The genre is “comedy drama”, which is based on real events. A wealthy aristocrat, disabled as a result of an accident, is looking for an assistant.
- "Radio". The film is based on real events, full of kindness and mutual understanding, which are becoming less and less in the modern world. But helping your neighbor always remains a relevant topic.
Books about mutual assistance
Reading books broadens one's horizons and enriches a person's inner and spiritual world. The mutual assistance described in literary works changes people for the better.
- "Wings for a Friend" Yulia Ivanova. The fairy tale teaches you to appreciate the beauty around you and admit your mistakes. Friendship and mutual assistance accompany the heroes on the way to achieving their goals.
- “Everything in the world is not accidental” Olga Dzyuba. A story with a detective plot. A young girl meets wonderful people who become friends and help her understand many issues.
- "The World Through the Eyes of Bob the Cat" James Bonouin. The book is based on a true story. A good book about mutual assistance, patience and devotion. A red cat saved the life of a street musician. For the sake of his furry friend, he overcame his drug addiction and returned to a normal life.
- (43 words) Mutual assistance more than once saved Taras Bulba and his people in the fight against the Poles (in Gogol’s story “Taras Bulba”). Father and son, like the rest of the army, stood shoulder to shoulder. For example, Taras even came to his son’s execution to hold him for the last time.
- (46 words) It’s very bad when there is no mutual assistance in the work team. In Gogol’s story “The Overcoat,” the hero was humiliated in every possible way at work. This made him withdrawn into himself and lost meaning in life. It is his colleagues who are to blame for the tragic outcome, because without mutual assistance and respect the team turns into a wild herd.
- (44 words) Kolya Krasotkin demonstrated mutual assistance in the part of Dostoevsky’s novel “The Brothers Karamazov” called “Boys”. He protected Ilyusha and showed him his patronage, so the baby became very attached to him. This is what real daredevils should do towards weak children, this is an indicator of strength.
- (44 words) Mutual assistance should be the basis in love. In Pushkin’s “The Captain’s Daughter,” the hero was not afraid to stand up for the girl’s honor, and later rescue her from captivity. So he proved to her that he was a reliable young man. Then she helped him out, begging the empress for his release.
- (41 words) In Andersen’s fairy tale “The Snow Queen,” Gerda rescued Kai from trouble. The guys grew up side by side, and, of course, always supported each other. From the very beginning they were taught mutual care, which is why the girl was not afraid of danger, just to save the person dear to her.
- (46 words) Without mutual assistance, it would not be possible to accomplish a single important collective task. In the fairy tale “Three Fat Men” by Y. Olesha, the heroes make a coup. However, one of the leaders is detained and wants to be executed. Then Tibul and Suok risk their lives just to save their friend, and only then do they succeed.
- (48 words) In Twain’s work “The Adventures of Tom Sawyer,” the guys always support each other, otherwise they would not have coped with so many challenges. For example, if one of them chickened out and began to panic, the raft would capsize and all the boys would drown. But the guys behaved confidently and helped each other out.
- (43 words) In Pushkin’s novel “Dubrovsky”, the faithful peasants supported their real master and shared his lot with him. Vladimir also helped them out, did not leave them with Troekurova, but led them and took them into the forest so that they could build their own lives away from corrupt officials and cruel landowners.
- (43 words) In the novel “Poor People,” Devushkin’s boss selflessly helps him out of trouble, because he has helped him out more than once with his honest service. He gives Makar a hundred rubles, and this amount in those days allowed him to help Varya and not fall into extreme poverty himself.
- (45 words) In the poem “Vasily Terkin” by Tvardovsky (chapter “Two Soldiers”), the peasants fed the soldier from the last of their supplies, which were already very meager. And in return, he fixed all their broken things and inspired the old people, instilling in them faith in victory. Without mutual assistance, our people would not have defeated Hitler.
- (43 words) My friend, for example, always helps me out. Once he even saved me from a stray dog by throwing a stone at it at the right time. I did not remain in debt and, on occasion, wrote a couple of essays for him when he left for competitions and did not have time to do it.
- (45 words) I always considered my brother ungrateful: I helped him, but he didn’t help me. But one day, when I had problems with my classmates, he sorted them out in no time, although I didn’t even ask him about it. Thus, mutual assistance is the basis of the family.
- (52 words) One day I skipped school while the class was writing a math test. The teacher called home, but my grandmother, realizing in time what was going on, covered for me so that there would be no trouble later. She, of course, gave me the first number, but I’m still grateful to her for coming to the rescue. No wonder I dug her beds!
- (56 words) I always tried to help my sister, and she didn’t lag behind. One day I went on a spree and forgot to pick her up from kindergarten on time. We returned late, but my sister shouted right from the doorway: “Thank you for waiting for me, otherwise I wouldn’t have managed it in my life.” She told her parents that she herself was late, and I was waiting for her. This is such mutual assistance!
- (43 words) In our family, mutual assistance is the main rule. For example, I helped my grandmother learn a computer from scratch so that she would not be kicked out of her job. And she allowed me to celebrate my birthday in her apartment and even prepared some treats. Family members should always support each other.
- (48 words) Mutual assistance is a manifestation of friendship. I remember there was a new kid in our class, and he was not good at math. Everyone laughed, but I felt bad for him: I’m not friends either. When he stood at the board and couldn’t solve the equation, I gave him a hint. Since then we have become friends.
- (37 words) In my social circle, everyone helps each other out. I help a friend with English, he helps me with algebra, my other friend will always explain why Onegin refused Tatyana? Mutual assistance is the basis of life in a team; you can’t live without it.
- (45 words) Once a neighbor boy and I went into the forest, I, jokingly, walked away from him and got lost. But he was not afraid and quickly called for help to find me. As a thank you for the summer, I helped him learn English, and he passed the difficult exam without difficulty.
- (48 words) One day, my friend and I got into a fight. There was a third boy with us, whom we patronized, but he chickened out and ran away. My comrade took this test with me, and we fought our enemies with honor. It is mutual assistance that gives people an understanding of the difference between friendship and friendship.
Examples from life
How often do we hear the word “mutual assistance”. What kind of word is this? And although the meaning lies in the term itself, which consists of two words - “mutual” and “help” - its meaning is not clear to everyone. If there are difficulties in it, let's figure it out.
Mutual assistance - meaning
In Russian explanatory dictionaries, the word “mutual assistance” is interpreted as nothing other than mutual assistance, mutual readiness to come at the first call in some matter. Almost always, the principle “you give me - I give you” always applies here.
Mutual assistance: quotes, sayings, aphorisms on this topic
Let's look at the meaning of the word using specific sentences as an example.
1. Pierre Bezukhov, knowing that Anatole Kuragin is a scoundrel, saves Natasha from shame when Anatole, on a whim, decided to take her away.
2. In no other matter have peoples shown so much solidarity, agreement, mutual assistance, and common efforts as in the study of Antarctica.
3. In wall combat, joint actions, a sense of comradeship, and mutual assistance were mainly practiced.
4. Always rely on a friend, but don’t forget to help him out yourself.
5. Any help is good when done on time.
6. Take on any task boldly; if you can’t handle it, friends will help.
7. Call yourself a comrade - help in troubles.
8. If you face everyone yourself, people will not turn their backs to you.
9. You need to take someone not as a slave, but as an assistant.
10. In case of fire, even a bucket of water will be expensive.
11. Only a pig does not serve as an assistant.
12. Help your neighbor who is standing with an outstretched hand, because you yourself may find yourself in his place.
13. Your benefits are worthless if you don’t share them with others.
14. The biggest enemies of man are stinginess and reluctance to help.
15. He who asks for help today will help you tomorrow.
16. Dogs don’t go after wolves.
Examples of mutual assistance
What is mutual assistance? Good neighbors know this. There are situations when you prepare a delicious dish, but at the last moment you remember that you forgot to buy, for example, milk. You won't run to the store, but go to your neighbor for a glass of drink. The next time the same neighbor asks you for an onion, salt or sugar, and you will not be able to refuse him. This is an example of mutual assistance in the neighborhood.
Payment for private master classes can also be considered mutual assistance. You paid a friend who knows how to paint a symbolic amount to teach you how to draw. In turn, the artist will provide you with this service, losing personal time and compensating for his efforts with a small amount. That is, mutual assistance is a common benefit. The principle here is “you give me, I give you.”
Mutual assistance does not necessarily mean private assistance. Help can occur at the state level. What is mutual assistance for different countries? Two or more states that may have similar interests may depend on each other and need mutual assistance. This could be financial, military, trade and economic, transit assistance, and so on.
Another option for mutual assistance is charity. It may only seem that by helping the needy or the sick, we are giving away money irrevocably. According to church concepts, this is an important degree of mutual assistance, when you help someone for free, and then in difficult times, help will definitely come to you from anyone.
Friendship and mutual assistance - compatible concepts?
As for friendship, the concepts of “mutual assistance” and “mutual assistance” can have different meanings. Let's look at an example. Friendship is a relationship between people that has no underlying motives, intentions, or receiving any benefits. You like the person, you communicate with him with pleasure and do not expect anything from him in return.
It can also be argued that there are several manifestations of friendship. One of them involves frequent communication, meetings, telephone conversations. Such friendship can last for a very long time, even into old age. It arises on the basis of common interests, mutual understanding, affection and readiness to always come to the rescue and help out in difficult times, answer a night call, etc.
And there is a type of friendship when two people are united by some common activity, they communicate, go for walks together, and group together in groups. But can such people be called friends or is it just a friendly relationship? And finally, as for motives, mutual assistance is possible in both the first and second cases. Only in the latter will it be provided with the hope that you will not be able to refuse something necessary to the person in the future. And in the first case of long-term friendship, the person will be happy to help you, doing everything in his power, and will be glad that he could be of use to you. Besides, he will not expect anything in return.
In this case, let's return to the question of whether friendship and mutual assistance are compatible. Of course not! True friendship is help always and without any conditions. If a person is not able to help you out in a difficult situation, but sometimes helps you, he is just your friend and there is mutual assistance here.
Mutual assistance in the family
In family relationships everything is different. When you sincerely love someone close to you, you are ready to make any concessions to him and will always come to his aid. The very concept of “mutual assistance” in family relationships is categorical. You can't ignore the cry for help from your younger brother, older sister, parents, or grandparents, right? In turn, your relatives are always ready to become a mountain for you, to help you out in any situation, to always help in word, deed, and means. This is mutual assistance.
Conclusion
As we see, mutual assistance and mutual assistance are the same things in meaning. This is the ability to come to the aid of one’s neighbor selflessly or with benefit.